I have mentioned before the different D/s dynamic in my relationship with W and my relationship with Ad. With W, it is about control, whether that is through the more subtle emotional control that runs like a current beneath and through all our interactions, or the more direct physical control–the subjugation–that comes with ropes and [...]
Mary Catherine stood nervously outside Professor Higgins’ office. She had never spoken to him before. Her only encounter with him had been at the welcoming speech he’d given her year. As head of their programme she would only expect to have contact with him as she progressed through her course. That she was told to report to him and not her year head did not bode well for her.She had knocked and
When I first heard about the Mood Pictures / Elite Pain (Mood/EP) raid, I didn’t think anything of it. Actually, I already saw the storyline for Mood’s next film after the whole affair would have been cleared up, maybe titled “Extreme Porn”. The st…
WOW!!! What a fantastic day we had on Friday. And it was all due to my very good friend and scene buddy Mistress Switch! She really does surpass herself when organizing original events. This event her idea was to have a double caning,…
I am going to preface this by saying that these are my opinions and they aren’t going to change because someone thinks I am wrong. I’m sure many of you will have different opinions on the matter. My opinions aren’t wrong, they are mine and I’m entitl…
GREAT SPANKING ACTION FROM BAD TUSHY
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What a horrible day! What a lucky girl I have been. I was two cars away from an accident today on the M25. I was not going to fast and the lane beside me was clear. Had it not been, I probably would have been involved in it. What [...]
It was after dinner (lobster ravioli with eel and caviar foam – mmmm!) that I read up on the history of the rather splendid hotel in which I was staying in Utrecht. It seems that it was formerly the city’s court complex – a past that was sure to inspire my creative juices.
I imagined a [...]
I had a great day hanging out with my girlies. There was shopping and drinks over the rugby game (we beat England, woohoo!) and then a lovely dinner out.During the course of the shopping I bought a book. This book to be precise:I’m hoping to learn valuable excuses to get me out of situations where toppy types are trying to punish me for some little thing or other as is their want to do. I
Another Milestone reached…
750,000 clicks
Sometime within the next couple of hours, YEOWCH will…
Seems as though we passed something of a milestone a few minutes ago:
OK, page load stats are misleading – they don’t include the hundreds of folks who read us on RSS, for example, or readers of Abel’s stories page. But 2.5 million hits for a blog that features the written word only, and no naughty [...]
Non consensual play or ‘non consensual’ is one of the thorny sides of the BDSM world. Generally, there are two types of this play – in my definition the type of non consensual play without the inverted commas is where the sub doesn’t have a safe-word and the type of ‘non consensual’ play with inverted [...]
I spent the early part of the week in Utrecht, and rather fell in love with the place. It’s everything that Amsterdam should be (and isn’t) – beautiful merchants’ houses lining quaint canals, yet quite unspoilt.
I went for a stroll before dinner, and imagined the histories behind the attractive water-side facades – a girl, freshly [...]
Those among you who crave cuteness from this blog, beware. For every sweet spanking fairytale that appears, you get one image of sadistic Mongol hordes.Just saying. Anyway. On to the wonder of words, then. Specifically, why we love them so much when t…
Last summer, Jessica had a post on the phenomenon of the brat that generated quite a bit of discussion on her blog and others. At some point during the discussions, Graham noted that there seemed to be a bit of a Bratlash going on in the blogosphere. I’m not a huge fan of over-the-top bratting, [...]
I’ve been totally disinterested in kink since I moved. Not scared of it, like last August, just utterly disinterested. Before, the thought of being spanked made me want to be sick, but this time, I just couldn’t really care either way. This time, apart from twenty minutes of sheer, animal need in the middle of this week, there’s been nary a glimmer of my kink, and I’m not sure that bothers me. In fact, the only reason I’m writing this post is that I want to canvas opinion.
The lack of interest leads me into several trains of thought, often contradictory. One is “Well, does it really matter if this is it, if I never feel kinky again?” One is “It’s only been two weeks, get over yourself.” Another, “Two weeks is a long time for you.” Also, “I *do* care if my kink disappears… it’s been part of who I am for two years and I like it.”
One thing I do wonder, is that if I have unconsciously made the lack of interest worse. Have I, by keeping telling myself that I’ve lost all interest, actually reinforced that assumption more than would necessarily be true. Have I, in fact, made my disinterest worse?
So now I’m wondering what the cure is, or if I even should try and find one? Is it just worth getting on with it, getting a good spanking, get over the hump, as it were, and remind myself why I love being a kinky girl? Or is there a bigger risk of it just reinforcing my disinterest?
Alternatively, do I just leave well alone and let me head/desires sort themselves out in their own sweet time, however long that takes?
Thoughts please!
In Fond Memory – Alex Birch/Birchmaster
Came across the following post a few moments ago..
“Many of…
Hi guys, what is a girl to do? All day my job entails looking at pictures of naughty ladies and girls getting spanked and caned and I have to wait a whole week before that is going to happen to me again. It is absolute torture! How I miss being spanked. [...]
Two posts from me in one week! That has not happened in a while. It is due to the fact that I have let the blog slip a little bit over the past couple of months. Mr Stern has been quite tolerant of this behaviour, but no more. Yesterday he told me in no uncertain [...]
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